Thursday, 16 May 2013

To Be Positive

We hear a lot that you need to have positive approach in life towards anything. It might be frustrating to hear this many times but your thinking makes the whole difference in all the aspects of your life. You might be happy at times and be unhappy some other time but all these are not due to the situations around you. It is all what happens in your mind that actually makes the difference. It is your way of approaching situations that make you happy or sad and not what actually happens. Hence positive thinking will always help you to be happy in life. Positive thinking can make the difference in a though of ‘how can I do it’ and ‘why can’t I do it’. This is why you often hear that you need to stay positive. As simple it is to say ‘be positive’, the difficult it is to actually implement it.

Situations get worst sometimes and these are the times when you are tested the most. It is easy to give up hope and do nothing. The harder way is to face the situation and still try to make something out of nothing. You learn many things from your bad times rather than your good times. Some might crack their first interview and some may take 3 or 4 or even more interviews to land in a job. Staying positive here means not to lose hope and have the self-belief that you can still do it. This helps you learn a lot from each failure. What you learn from your failures makes you a better person. For example, if you haven’t done well in you exams although you have put in your best effort. Sitting back and sorting out new ways to study so that you can score better next time will surely help you. You might even find a better way to study which requires lesser effort than what you used to put in before. This is how a positive going attitude helps you.

So one has to have that belief system to keep on working even if the hardships knocks one down, because that’s the only right way. But this doesn't mean that one has to be hopelessly positive, sometimes being practical is very vital. In situations like you are bankrupt, one can’t be positive and expect all the money to come back by itself. You have to be positive but still think practical scenarios possible. In these situations once has to understand that positivity has to be affected by practicality for the present age, cause without practicality it is vain to think about being positive without any gains, especially in your career. Hence in any situation you cannot get the positive attitude going easily. You will have to think about some other motivating factor which can help you get your positive thinking back. Suppose you are in search of a good job, then you have to think positive to get it. There are many job search engines which help you to find the right job and also give proper guidance to the job seeker so that they can have a great career.