There are few fears in
each and every human being. Few fears such as losing something or getting
rejected are quite common to many. Getting rejected could be in an interview or
in any proposal or anywhere does hurt. Once this fear of rejection gets a toll
of you then the next step you take is to avoid all the circumstances that will
lead you to rejection. It could be in your personal life or in your career
prospective; this fear can lead to disasters in your life. Conquer your fear of rejection
is the way to progress in life.
Let us speak about getting rejected in an interview. Rejection is not just painful but also comes
to your mind again and again. You might have many sleepless nights also. Sometimes
the situation might not be too bad but only because you are rejected, the whole
thing might look too big for you. It is the way you mentally deal with this
situation is what finally matters. To forget all and move forward is very
difficult thing to implement but this is the only way forward. It surely does
take time and you will have to try till you can put out this rejection fear out
of your mind. One of the best ways to conquer your fear of rejection is to learn from the mistakes you have committed in your
previous interview. Even if you think logically, you have a fear because you
doubt yourself of answering correctly and are low at confidence. The only way
to clear your doubts and boost your confidence is to be better prepared this
time.
Making sure you find
right answers to the questions you have not answered correctly in previous
interviews is the first step towards boosting your self-confidence. Rather than
putting the question can I do it, ask why I can’t do it. It’s a difference of a
single word but is capable of removing fear from anybody for sure. Seeing
yourself in a mirror and saying this can help you even better at times.
Always remember there
are two aspects when it comes to conquer your fear of rejection. One aspect
deals with gaining better knowledge. The other aspect does deal with improving
your self-belief. Combination of these two can only help you to come out of the
fear of rejection. A positive thinking mind can also help you in many ways.
Might be some better job is waiting for you. Thinking so will not let your
morale fall down. Your success will only get sweeter if you achieve it after a
failure. And another plus is you will not be afraid of failure as you have
already tasted it. So seeing the positive side of rejection will do much good
to you than just feeling that it is your failure. Thinking positive is good but
this thinking should help you to work harder towards success and not make you
complacent. This sought of change in your approach is the way to conquer your fear of rejection.
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